{"id":2524,"date":"2014-08-29T03:07:32","date_gmt":"2014-08-29T03:07:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/?p=2524"},"modified":"2014-08-29T03:08:30","modified_gmt":"2014-08-29T03:08:30","slug":"the-normal-heart-a-kick-in-the-gut","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2014\/08\/29\/the-normal-heart-a-kick-in-the-gut\/","title":{"rendered":"The Normal Heart – a Kick in the Gut"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Hug\"<\/a>Of course there’s no such thing as time travel. \u00a0Of course not.<\/p>\n

The Normal Heart <\/a>though, for anyone who was in New York in the 80’s, comes about as close as you can get. \u00a0We watched it after the Emmys. \u00a0I had avoided it, knowing how troubling it would no doubt be, but it felt wrong to not look. \u00a0Too many people had done that 30 years ago. \u00a0Here’s how one New Yorker\u00a0described, to the\u00a0New York Times<\/a>,\u00a0\u00a0Manhattan in May of 1987:<\/p>\n

‘Going to funerals has become a way of life,” said George Getzel, a Hunter College social work professor who counsels AIDS patients as a volunteer. ”People in their 70’s and 80’s experience this but here people in their 20’s and 30’s are visiting the sick at homes and in hospitals and burying the dead. Some are themselves sick. It’s become a regularized aspect of the lives of gay men and others like myself who are involved.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

The Normal Heart slammed me back to those days:<\/p>\n

The day, when I worked at the TODAY SHOW, that my friend Susan Weaver <\/a>did one of the first AIDS stories that included a live guest in the studio. \u00a0There was fear in the air that morning. \u00a0A couple of studio crew members asked to be replaced and people debated in advance whether to shake hands with the young man who had the courage to show up and talk about what was happening to him, to New York and, we know now, to all of us.<\/p>\n

The day that\u00a0Allison Gertz<\/a>, who succumbed to AIDS in 1992 at the age of 26 (and who spoke at many high schools to very effectively remind teenagers that for her, AIDS came from a single encounter with an infected man and that heterosexual sex was anything but safe) spoke, with enormous impact, at my own son’s high school.<\/p>\n

The day that our sweet friend Stephen left us.<\/p>\n

The day one of my oldest friends told me that of his entire book group, he was the only survivor.<\/p>\n

The day\u00a0Elizabeth Glaser<\/a>, \u00a0wife of actor Paul Michael Glaser, stricken through a blood transfusion during the birth of her daughter Ariel, who also contracted the disease, showed up at a Georgetown party lobbying and fundraising simultaneously. \u00a0Ariel’s illness drove Glaser to form the Pediatric Aids Foundation, later renamed the Elizabeth Glaser Pediatric Aids Foundation in her honor. \u00a0She was everywhere, from Georgetown to Hollywood to endless television appearances, raising money and awareness until she died in 1994.<\/p>\n

The day we watched Mark Harmon<\/a>, the loveable, mischievous Dr. Caswell, walk away alone from the brilliant St. Elsewhere<\/a>, his own AIDS diagnosis and certain death drawing him to an AIDS hospice to provide care until he died among his patients.<\/p>\n

For everything here came days and weeks worth, years worth of deep melancholy and, for so many, pain, death and grief. \u00a0 \u00a0Because New Yorkers live so close together, ride mass transit, hang out in public parks, buy food from hotdog carts on the corner and, even if they’re really really rich, can’t stay clear of strangers, we all knew it, felt it and feared it.<\/p>\n

Of course, AIDS is still with us, a terrible epidemic in the developing world, and still present in the West. \u00a0Here the reality is different today, if not entirely.<\/p>\n

So yes, The Normal Heart was<\/em> time travel; the gift of a perfect document reminding us, and portraying for those who came after, of a terrible, terrible time.<\/p>\n

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