{"id":2003,"date":"2014-03-29T00:09:54","date_gmt":"2014-03-29T00:09:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/?p=2003"},"modified":"2014-03-29T00:09:54","modified_gmt":"2014-03-29T00:09:54","slug":"oh-gwyneth-mom-to-mom-to-mom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2014\/03\/29\/oh-gwyneth-mom-to-mom-to-mom\/","title":{"rendered":"Oh Gwyneth!  Mom to Mom to Mom"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/paltrowdanner-gal-mother.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-2004 alignleft\" alt=\"paltrowdanner-gal-mother\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/paltrowdanner-gal-mother.jpg?resize=300%2C177&#038;ssl=1\" width=\"300\" height=\"177\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/paltrowdanner-gal-mother.jpg?resize=300%2C177&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/paltrowdanner-gal-mother.jpg?w=431&amp;ssl=1 431w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Gwyneth Paltrow has serious mom shoes to fill. \u00a0Her own <a href=\"http:\/\/www.calgaryherald.com\/entertainment\/movie-guide\/Gwyneth+Paltrow+defends+daughter\/9225752\/story.html\" target=\"_blank\">mother<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.biography.com\/people\/blythe-danner-954215\" target=\"_blank\">Blythe Danner<\/a> (you&#8217;ve probably seen her in those osteoporosis ads, or as <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/character\/ch0019863\/?ref_=ttfc_fc_cl_t14\" target=\"_blank\">almost <\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/character\/ch0389128\/?ref_=ttfc_fc_cl_t5\" target=\"_blank\">everybody&#8217;s<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/character\/ch0033807\/?ref_=ttfc_fc_cl_t139\" target=\"_blank\">TV<\/a>\/<a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/character\/ch0003618\/?ref_=ttfc_fc_cl_t6\" target=\"_blank\">movie<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/character\/ch0389128\/?ref_=ttfc_fc_cl_t5\" target=\"_blank\">mom<\/a>&#8230;) is a spectacular actress who took a long professional hiatus to stay home with her kids as they grew up. \u00a0If you had seen her show up at that MASH unit in Korea as Hawkeye Pierce&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/aftermash.blogspot.com\/2009\/06\/episode-94-more-i-see-you.html\">great lost love<\/a>, or as Alma in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/events\/207956449264341\/\" target=\"_blank\">Eccentricities of a Nightingale<\/a>\u00a0you&#8217;d know just how much she gave up and we all lost. \u00a0Her daughter has often acknowledged how aware she was of that decision.<\/p>\n<p>I think one reason it&#8217;s tough to watch all the hating on Gwyneth, especially by other women, is that her mother is so extraordinary. I interviewed her once for a story on the Girl Scouts, of all things, and she was fierce. \u00a0About acting, about her leave from acting, about not raising her kids in Hollywood, about almost everything.<\/p>\n<p>As I&#8217;ve watched her daughter all these years, with weird baby names and regimens and what seem like odd decisions, I&#8217;ve watched her the way a mother might. \u00a0Understanding and probably respecting the quest, the efforts to build an original life and, of course, the professional success, and worrying about <a href=\"http:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/news\/people\/gwyneth-paltrow-this-working-mothers-open-letter-to-the-actress-who-claims-being-a-film-star-is-harder-than-working-a-95-is-amazing-9221301.html\" target=\"_blank\">The Interview <\/a>\u00a0and other events\u00a0that made her sound more shallow than she probably is. \u00a0Springing to her defense, <a href=\"&lt;a href=&quot;http:\/\/www.calgaryherald.com\/entertainment\/movie-guide\/Gwyneth+Paltrow+defends+daughter\/9225752\/story.html&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;mother&lt;\/a&gt;\">as Danner did<\/a>, seems reasonable. \u00a0The downpour of venom does not.<\/p>\n<p>I know I&#8217;m challenging a lot of women I deeply respect but it just seems so &#8212; \u00a0unnecessary. \u00a0The women of America face a true political emergency, and if the right takes over Congress this fall we are in real danger. \u00a0 Let&#8217;s hate more on the people responsible for that and leave this poor, complicated woman to fix what she can and recover from the rest.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gwyneth Paltrow has serious mom shoes to fill. \u00a0Her own mother, Blythe Danner (you&#8217;ve probably seen her in those osteoporosis ads, or as almost everybody&#8217;s TV\/movie mom&#8230;) is a spectacular actress who took a long professional hiatus to stay home with her kids as they grew up. \u00a0If you had seen her show up at &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2014\/03\/29\/oh-gwyneth-mom-to-mom-to-mom\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Oh Gwyneth!  Mom to Mom to Mom<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[4,6,7,9,29],"tags":[2608,2607,2611,2610,2609,2606,275,2067],"class_list":["post-2003","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-baby-boom","category-culture","category-life","category-politics","category-women","tag-blythe-danner","tag-chris-martin","tag-coldplay","tag-conscious-uncoupling","tag-divorced","tag-gwyneth-paltrow","tag-marriage","tag-working-moms"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4gBq8-wj","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2003","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2003"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2003\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2007,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2003\/revisions\/2007"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2003"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2003"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2003"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}