{"id":1776,"date":"2006-08-22T22:36:57","date_gmt":"2006-08-22T22:36:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2006\/08\/22\/of_course_it_co\/"},"modified":"2006-08-22T22:36:57","modified_gmt":"2006-08-22T22:36:57","slug":"of_course_it_co","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2006\/08\/22\/of_course_it_co\/","title":{"rendered":"OF COURSE IT COULDN&#8217;T LAST &#8211; RANDOM THOUGHTS ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE WEB"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I just spent an hour listening to NYT reporter Kurt Eichenwald on a talk show describing the current state of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2006\/08\/20\/business\/20model.html\">Internet child pornography<\/a>.&nbsp; It&#8217;s just so sad.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>I remember as far back as 1998, when I helped launch an Internet safety campaign called <a href=\"http:\/\/kids.getnetwise.org\/americalinksup\/index2.html\">America Links Up<\/a>. We organized teach-ins, a TV program, a family website and a lot of other material to help parents keep their kids safe on line.&nbsp; I, stupidly, thought people were a little overwrought about the whole thing.&nbsp; If you were honest with kids, they could be trusted.&nbsp; [ASIDE: I am, I often observe, a walking demographic&#8230; here for the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dancingbadger.com\/glelephant.htm\">George Lakoff nurturing parent<\/a>.]&nbsp; How could we deprive them when the Internet was, as John Perry Barlow said, &quot;the most important discovery since fire?&quot;<\/p>\n<p>I was so besotted that I was incorrigible.&nbsp; My boss at iVillage, whom I represented at American Links Up, used to call me a Web rat.&nbsp; But it&#8217;s a sign of my eternal naivete that I never thought it would get as bad as it (apparently) is. AND that so many kids would log on when parents weren&#8217;t looking and participate. ( If the stories are true, it&#8217;s not just toddlers and preteens being exploited, it is also older teens getting sucked in and abused as well. ) <\/p>\n<p>We raised our kids in a style very similar to that described by long-time Wired writer Jon Katz, writing as Wired&#8217;s Netizen.&nbsp; In 1996 he wrote a<a href=\"http:\/\/www.wired.com\/wired\/archive\/4.07\/kids_pr.html\"> kids&#8217; bill of rights on line<\/a> &#8211; linking web rights to responsibilities met.&nbsp; I wonder how that would play just ten years later.<\/p>\n<p>In addition, I still don&#8217;t understand &#8211; when there are so many Law and Order SVU and a dozens of other programs portraying the dangers of these people &#8211; why young people would engage in this stuff to begin with.&nbsp; Either too many kids are too lonely to care or we just aren&#8217;t paying enough attention.&nbsp; Parents have to work and if they want decent housing they often have long commutes.&nbsp; They need help.<\/p>\n<p>So what do you think?&nbsp; Is the Web as scary as Eichenwald portrays it?&nbsp; Is some of it hype?&nbsp; How do we keep kids safe and still help them to savor the Internet in all its wonders and opportunities?&nbsp; Holler out some ideas&#8230;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I just spent an hour listening to NYT reporter Kurt Eichenwald on a talk show describing the current state of Internet child pornography.&nbsp; It&#8217;s just so sad.&nbsp; I remember as far back as 1998, when I helped launch an Internet safety campaign called America Links Up. We organized teach-ins, a TV program, a family website &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2006\/08\/22\/of_course_it_co\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">OF COURSE IT COULDN&#8217;T LAST &#8211; RANDOM THOUGHTS ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE WEB<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[27,51],"tags":[2565,50,2566,693,967,692,790,2005],"class_list":["post-1776","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-current-affairs","category-webtech","tag-child-pornography","tag-children","tag-eichenwald","tag-internet","tag-kids","tag-online","tag-parents","tag-safety"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4gBq8-sE","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1776","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1776"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1776\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1776"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1776"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1776"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}