{"id":1736,"date":"2006-11-24T13:56:01","date_gmt":"2006-11-24T13:56:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2006\/11\/24\/will_you_still_\/"},"modified":"2006-11-24T13:56:01","modified_gmt":"2006-11-24T13:56:01","slug":"will_you_still_","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2006\/11\/24\/will_you_still_\/","title":{"rendered":"WILL YOU STILL NEED ME, WILL YOU STILL&#8230;.??"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My older son used to shave his head. He&#8217;d lost lots of hair on top anyway so just shaved all of it off and looked way cool. I used to tease him that he needed an earring too but he said he was his own kind of rebel &#8211; being the only person to graduate from his free-spirited university with &quot;no new holes.&quot; He&#8217;s always been his own self. Very cool, he and his equally groovy brother have kept me up to date with what&#8217;s new in music, books, film and world view.&nbsp; They are, honestly, two of the most interesting people I know. But I digress. <\/p>\n<p>Thursday night at a Thanksgiving dinner in his new, very beautiful condo, he started talking casually about his grey hairs. GREY! Then his [younger] brother chimed in about &quot;a couple&quot; that he had. Now this is not easy. If my children have grey hair what does that make me? Not to be selfish or anything but it&#8217;s kind of disconcerting.<\/p>\n<p><a onclick=\"window.open(this.href, '_blank', 'width=349,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false\" href=\"http:\/\/dontgelyet.typepad.com\/.shared\/image.html?\/photos\/uncategorized\/cks_1967ish_1.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"Cks_1967ish_1\" height=\"137\" alt=\"Cks_1967ish_1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/dontgeltoosoon\/images\/cks_1967ish_1.jpg?resize=100%2C137\" width=\"100\" border=\"0\" style=\"FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 5px 5px 0px\" \/><\/a> Aging is inevitable and I&#8217;ve been fortunate in my progress along this continuum but when your kids begin to demonstrate the passage of time you have to take a deep breath and accept it.&nbsp; I just read a piece in the New York Times about <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2006\/11\/26\/arts\/music\/26leed.html?_r=1&amp;adxnnl=1&amp;oref=slogin&amp;ref=music&amp;adxnnlx=1164719317-779gZyjRBzlUKD0W0msNkQ\">Baby Boomers refusal to join AARP<\/a>.&nbsp; I can relate to that.&nbsp; My <em>PARENTS<\/em>&nbsp; belonged to AARP.&nbsp; No thanks.<\/p>\n<p>Yeah &#8212; that&#8217;s me just above here.&nbsp; I think in 1967.<\/p>\n<p>I feel about as silly as <a href=\"http:\/\/www.broadwaymusicalhome.com\/shows\/peterpan.htm\">Peter Pan<\/a> ( I won&#8217;t grow up. Not a penny will I pinch. I will never grow a mustache, Or a fraction of an inch. Cause growing up is awfuller, Than all the awful things that ever were.&nbsp; I&#8217;ll never grow up, never grow up, never grow up, No sir, Not I, Not me, So there!) but that doesn&#8217;t change my mind.<\/p>\n<p>An old friend used to say &quot;Call me adult anytime you want; just don&#8217;t call me a grown-up.&quot;&nbsp; I guess that&#8217;s how I feel.&nbsp; Counter-cultural and generational identity is strong in people my age and I feel it particularly.&nbsp; I did dozens of Boomer stories when I worked at the TODAY SHOW &#8211; including a series when Boomers (including me, Bill Clinton, George Bush, Ben Vereen, Donald Trump, Susan Sarandon, Goldie Hawn and Cubby O&#8217;Brien) began turning 40 in 1986 and an entire year of anniversaries of 1968 in 1988.&nbsp; I am formed and INformed by the time of my birth and have always known it.&nbsp; I joke that I&#8217;m a &quot;walking demographic&quot; but it&#8217;s true.<\/p>\n<p>SO.&nbsp; I will handle the grey hairs on the beloved heads of my beloved sons.&nbsp; I pray for and wish them well in their own journeys and am more grateful than I can describe both for them&#8211; and for the experiences of my own eventful life.&nbsp; And that&#8217;s not bad &#8212; not bad at all.&nbsp; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My older son used to shave his head. He&#8217;d lost lots of hair on top anyway so just shaved all of it off and looked way cool. I used to tease him that he needed an earring too but he said he was his own kind of rebel &#8211; being the only person to graduate &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2006\/11\/24\/will_you_still_\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">WILL YOU STILL NEED ME, WILL YOU STILL&#8230;.??<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3,4,6,42,7],"tags":[2435,2437,2436,192,107,22,3417,2433,2432,789,2434],"class_list":["post-1736","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-aging","category-baby-boom","category-culture","category-family","category-life","tag-2435","tag-aarp","tag-age-60","tag-aging-2","tag-baby-boom-2","tag-boomer","tag-family","tag-gray-hair","tag-grey-hair","tag-parenting","tag-turning-60"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4gBq8-s0","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1736","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1736"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1736\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1736"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1736"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1736"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}