{"id":1678,"date":"2007-05-06T18:38:50","date_gmt":"2007-05-06T18:38:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2007\/05\/06\/chuppas_kallahs\/"},"modified":"2007-05-06T18:38:50","modified_gmt":"2007-05-06T18:38:50","slug":"chuppas_kallahs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2007\/05\/06\/chuppas_kallahs\/","title":{"rendered":"Chuppas, Kallahs and Spiderman"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/photos\/uncategorized\/2007\/05\/06\/chuppa_3_sm.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Chuppa_3_sm\" title=\"Chuppa_3_sm\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/dontgeltoosoon\/images\/2007\/05\/06\/chuppa_3_sm.jpg?resize=200%2C150\" width=\"200\" height=\"150\" border=\"0\" style=\"float: left; margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;\" \/><\/a>Today I went to a wedding &#8211; the first in the new building donated to the<a href=\"http:\/\/www.rslfoundation.org\/html\/ourwork\/ourwork.htm\"> Ronald S. Lauder Foundation<\/a> for its work helping to rebuild Berlin&#8217;s Jewish community.  This is the bride (Kallah) and groom.  Here are a couple more:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/photos\/uncategorized\/2007\/05\/06\/groombride_1_bedeken_small.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Groombride_1_bedeken_small\" title=\"Groombride_1_bedeken_small\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/dontgeltoosoon\/images\/2007\/05\/06\/groombride_1_bedeken_small.jpg?resize=200%2C150\" width=\"200\" height=\"150\" border=\"0\" style=\"float: left; margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;\" \/><\/a>The bedeken &#8211; where the groom lowers the veil over his wife-to-be&#8217;s face in recognition of the ploy that led to Jacob&#8217;s marriage to Leah when he thought he was marrying his beloved Rachel &#8212;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/photos\/uncategorized\/2007\/05\/06\/dancing_2_sm.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Dancing_2_sm\" title=\"Dancing_2_sm\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/dontgeltoosoon\/images\/2007\/05\/06\/dancing_2_sm.jpg?resize=200%2C150\" width=\"200\" height=\"150\" border=\"0\" style=\"float: left; margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;\" \/><\/a>Men dancing in celebration.<\/p>\n<p>This was the first Orthodox wedding I&#8217;ve ever attended &#8211; and since almost everyone was from someplace in Eastern Europe- especially Russia, &#8211; it had an exotic flavor anyway.  I have lots to say about it but I wanted to post the photos now because I have to think a bit about how to describe the intense feelings it evoked.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/photos\/uncategorized\/2007\/05\/06\/toby_spider_2.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Toby_spider_2\" title=\"Toby_spider_2\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/dontgeltoosoon\/images\/2007\/05\/06\/toby_spider_2.jpg?resize=100%2C150\" width=\"100\" height=\"150\" border=\"0\" style=\"float: left; margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;\" \/><\/a>Strangely &#8211; we decided this evening to go see <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0413300\/\">SPIDER-MAN 3<\/a> in German, since it wasn&#8217;t playing in English except way downtown.  It was just such an interesting contrast &#8211; a quiet reverence and sense of something sacred at the wedding, and brash, crashing violence and special effects at the movies.  I speak almost no German yet only had to ask Rick what was happening maybe 2-3 times  since almost none of the exposition was verbal.  It does make you wonder how to understand one&#8217;s modern self as respect for old, old traditions grows with understanding.  <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/photos\/uncategorized\/2007\/05\/06\/ferris.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Ferris\" title=\"Ferris\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/dontgeltoosoon\/images\/2007\/05\/06\/ferris.jpg?resize=200%2C86\" width=\"200\" height=\"86\" border=\"0\" style=\"float: left; margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nI&#8217;m grateful for days like today, when my life lives up to the title of this blog &#8212; never gel.  &#8220;Life moves pretty fast. If you don&#8217;t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.&#8221;  Another, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0091042\/maindetails\">more attractive (at least to me) movie hero<\/a> said that&#8230;. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today I went to a wedding &#8211; the first in the new building donated to the Ronald S. Lauder Foundation for its work helping to rebuild Berlin&#8217;s Jewish community. This is the bride (Kallah) and groom. 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