{"id":1653,"date":"2007-08-14T11:17:47","date_gmt":"2007-08-14T11:17:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2007\/08\/14\/bonnie-and-clyd\/"},"modified":"2007-08-14T11:17:47","modified_gmt":"2007-08-14T11:17:47","slug":"bonnie-and-clyd","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2007\/08\/14\/bonnie-and-clyd\/","title":{"rendered":"BONNIE AND CLYDE, VIOLENCE AND TIME PASSING"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/photos\/uncategorized\/2007\/08\/14\/bonnie_and_clyde.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"87\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Bonnie_and_clyde\" title=\"Bonnie_and_clyde\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/dontgeltoosoon\/images\/2007\/08\/14\/bonnie_and_clyde.jpg?resize=150%2C87\" style=\"margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px; float: left;\" \/><\/a>Last Sunday the New York Times reminded us that <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2007\/08\/12\/movies\/12scot.html\">Bonnie and Clyde<\/a>, a film seared behind the eyelids of people like me, is 40 years old.&nbsp; I remember it particularly because just after I saw it, I went to a 21st birthday dinner for a friend at her uncle&#8217;s home on Park Avenue in Manhattan.&nbsp; I was new to such places then, and, despite my anti-war lefty politics, both thrilled and intimidated &#8211; particularly because her uncle was a writer of some renown.&nbsp; For a college senior, it was another experience milestone. <\/p>\n<p>Along with most of adult America, our host had been appalled at the violence of the film.&nbsp; We, on the other hand, argued that the film was an accurate metaphor for the violence in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.vietnammemorial.com\/\">Vietnam<\/a>; a social comment that spoke deeply to all of us.&nbsp; The argument was long, fierce and audacious &#8212; and, of course, unresolved.&nbsp; I haven&#8217;t seen the film in many years and am curious how I would react. <\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve become a lot more sensitive to visual violence as I&#8217;ve raised my sons.&nbsp; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0086960\/\">Beverly Hills Cop <\/a>was released when my younger son was five.&nbsp; His big brother was nine and really wanted to see it; since we hated leaving Dan behind, he came too.&nbsp; Do you remember the ending?&nbsp; It was a gun battle too but multiples more gory and violent than Bonnie and Clyde ever dreamt of being.&nbsp; The worst part?&nbsp; My son was upset, yes, but the audience barely reacted &#8211; and many cheered.&nbsp; Film and TV violence in the years between 1967 and 1984 had escalated slowly, right in front of us &#8211; and we had barely noticed.&nbsp; That progression has continued.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a creepy dilemma. I&#8217;m a true romantic who revels in love stories like <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0094812\/\">Bull Durham<\/a> (1988) and&nbsp; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0138097\/\">Shakespeare in Love<\/a> (1998), oldies like <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0035140\/\">Now, Voyager<\/a> (1942) and two I&#8217;ve written about before, <a href=\"http:\/\/dontgelyet.typepad.com\/dontgeltoosoon\/2007\/01\/me_and_mrs_muir.html\">The Ghost and Mrs. Muir<\/a> (1947)and <a href=\"http:\/\/dontgelyet.typepad.com\/dontgeltoosoon\/2007\/07\/back-to-manderl.html\">Rebbecca<\/a> (1940) as well as decade-old satires like <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0120885\/\">Wag the Dog <\/a>(1997)and Warren Beatty&#8217;s (aka Clyde&#8217;s) masterpiece <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0118798\/\">Bulworth<\/a> (1998).&nbsp; But another of my favorite films is <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0110912\/\">Pulp Fiction<\/a> (1994)- steeped in violence, much of it random.&nbsp; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0102926\/\">Silence of the Lambs<\/a>, too.&nbsp; And of course, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/find?s=all&amp;q=the+godfather\">The Godfather Trilogy<\/a> (1972, 1974, 1990)&nbsp; &nbsp;None of these, and other more &quot;realistically violent&quot; films, would have been possible before&nbsp; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/name\/nm0671957\/\">Arthur Penn<\/a> brought Bonnie and Clyde to life.<\/p>\n<p>My protective instincts as a mother and activist clash with my respect for the vision of the artist and the gifts those visions can bring to the rest of us.&nbsp; This isn&#8217;t a new conversation of course, any more than it was new in 1967.&nbsp; It&#8217;s been going on as long as artists have.&nbsp; What&#8217;s different this time is that I was a kid when Bonnie and Clyde slammed into our lives; now I&#8217;m at least the age of that angry uncle.&nbsp; I know a lot more and that colors how I look at things I don&#8217;t know.<\/p>\n<p>I named this blog <a href=\"http:\/\/dontgelyet.typepad.com\/dontgeltoosoon\/2006\/08\/how_this_blog_g.html\">Don&#8217;t Gel Too Soon <\/a>because I struggle to stay open &#8211; available to understand, to appreciate, that which comes next, and to remember that no matter how lovely the lovely there&#8217;s more to life than that.&nbsp; And that, after all, if someone doesn&#8217;t help us to see it, we can&#8217;t join together to change it. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last Sunday the New York Times reminded us that Bonnie and Clyde, a film seared behind the eyelids of people like me, is 40 years old.&nbsp; I remember it particularly because just after I saw it, I went to a 21st birthday dinner for a friend at her uncle&#8217;s home on Park Avenue in Manhattan.&nbsp; &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2007\/08\/14\/bonnie-and-clyd\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">BONNIE AND CLYDE, VIOLENCE AND TIME PASSING<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3,4,6,28,7,9,97],"tags":[447,2154,2144,2143,331,2149,718,2155,3416,2142,2141,73,834,789,2152,2148,2145,2151,2147,2153,2140,2146,2150],"class_list":["post-1653","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-aging","category-baby-boom","category-culture","category-film","category-life","category-politics","category-television","tag-art","tag-arthur-penn","tag-beverly-hills-cop","tag-bonnie-and-clyde","tag-bull-durham","tag-bulworth","tag-censorship","tag-children-and-violence","tag-film","tag-film-violence","tag-movie-violence","tag-movies","tag-now","tag-parenting","tag-pulp-fiction","tag-rebecca","tag-shakespeare-in-love","tag-silence-of-the-lambs","tag-the-ghost-and-mrs-muir","tag-the-godfather","tag-violence","tag-voyager","tag-wag-the-dog"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4gBq8-qF","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1653","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1653"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1653\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1653"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1653"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1653"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}