{"id":1511,"date":"2008-06-17T22:30:24","date_gmt":"2008-06-17T22:30:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2008\/06\/17\/at-tim-russerts\/"},"modified":"2014-08-04T05:24:16","modified_gmt":"2014-08-04T05:24:16","slug":"at-tim-russerts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2008\/06\/17\/at-tim-russerts\/","title":{"rendered":"AT TIM RUSSERT&#8217;S WAKE: A LITTLE BIT OF HOW IT SEEMED"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/photos\/uncategorized\/2008\/06\/17\/20080617201506_edited.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"20080617201506_edited\" alt=\"20080617201506_edited\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/dontgeltoosoon\/images\/2008\/06\/17\/20080617201506_edited.jpg?resize=200%2C348\" width=\"200\" height=\"348\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>So many people here and on Twitter have been talking about this; I thought I&#8217;d just tell you what it was like.<\/p>\n<p>I got there at around four.\u00a0 The line went from the door to a large room at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.stalbansschool.org\/home\/home.asp\">St. Alban&#8217;s School<\/a> just next to the <a href=\"www.cathedral.org\/cathedral\">National Cathedral<\/a>, where the wake was, up the stairs and a long walk to the driveway, around to the Cathedral front lawn.\u00a0 The last little bit was lined with wreaths &#8211; some of them very large &#8211; of flowers from friends and colleagues.\u00a0 There were several TV trucks and\u00a0 groups of reporters and camera people on folding chairs under the trees.<\/p>\n<p>This had begun at 2PM and would last until 9 &#8212; sad, but not dismal.\u00a0 It was a beautiful day, sunny, breezy, not at all humid &#8211; just gorgeous.\u00a0 And we were all grateful to be there.\u00a0 It was a generous thing for the Russerts to do in the midst of their own grief &#8212; allowing friends, as well as admirers who&#8217;d never met Tim but felt that they knew him anyway &#8212; to act on their own sadness.<\/p>\n<p>I talked to some random people in line with me: a woman who&#8217;d not known Tim at all but just wanted to be there and, happily, an old friend and pollster with whom I waited most of the way down the hill.\u00a0 I hadn&#8217;t seen him in a long time, so we caught up on our lives and our kids and our sadness.\u00a0 I started to tell him about all of Tim&#8217;s kindnesses to my boys when they were little; he started to tell me about his son&#8217;s internship at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.msnbc.msn.com\/id\/3032608\/\">Meet the Press<\/a>.\u00a0 Any one of Tim&#8217;s friends would have had a dozen stories just like those.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/photos\/uncategorized\/2008\/06\/17\/russertm_wake_line_g_edited_3.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Russertm_wake_line_g_edited_3\" alt=\"Russertm_wake_line_g_edited_3\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/dontgeltoosoon\/images\/2008\/06\/17\/russertm_wake_line_g_edited_3.jpg?resize=200%2C179\" width=\"200\" height=\"179\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nAll along the way, very kind staff and parents from the school, where Tim&#8217;s son Luke had gone, were there with name tags that said &#8220;volunteer&#8221; under their names and offers of help, directions, a place to leave a note for the family, ice water &#8211; just gracious and kind.\u00a0 I saw, as we arrived in the room itself, that the casket, covered with white flowers with a note that said &#8220;Love, Coco and Luke&#8221; was being guarded by what looked like young soldiers out of uniform.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve since learned that they are high school classmates of Luke&#8217;s who will stand guard throughout the night.<\/p>\n<p>We made our way past the casket in two lines, one on each side.\u00a0 Tim&#8217;s wife Maureen Orth was there, thanking people for coming.\u00a0 Then we were out, in a hallway, where another volunteer offered us the opportunity to leave a note on paper that would be bound into a book.\u00a0 The line was long, and each person spent considerable time &#8211; the comments were anything but brief.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/photos\/uncategorized\/2008\/06\/17\/russert1.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Russert1\" alt=\"Russert1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/dontgeltoosoon\/images\/2008\/06\/17\/russert1.jpg?resize=200%2C145\" width=\"200\" height=\"145\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nJust at the end, as we made our way out, stood this photo, the one I used yesterday, up on an easel.\u00a0 I was so glad to see it there &#8211; not because I&#8217;d used it too but because it was a declaration, which I&#8217;d felt and clearly his family felt, that the joy and mischief of this man was what we should take with us back into the world.<\/p>\n<p>Tomorrow there is a small funeral and a memorial service at the Kennedy Center which I&#8217;m sure will be amazing.\u00a0 And all of it will help those who loved and admired this larger-than-life presence deal with the reality of his absence.<\/p>\n<p>I want to say that, because of all the posts on Twitter and here on in the blogorama, I felt I was representing many of us and left a note that said as much.\u00a0 It was a privilege to be there.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So many people here and on Twitter have been talking about this; I thought I&#8217;d just tell you what it was like. I got there at around four.\u00a0 The line went from the door to a large room at St. Alban&#8217;s School just next to the National Cathedral, where the wake was, up the stairs &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2008\/06\/17\/at-tim-russerts\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">AT TIM RUSSERT&#8217;S WAKE: A LITTLE BIT OF HOW IT SEEMED<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3,6,27,2764,7],"tags":[590,1437,1438,1436,258,1434,1435,1428],"class_list":["post-1511","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-aging","category-culture","category-current-affairs","category-i-seem-to-write-a-lot-of-obits","category-life","tag-funeral","tag-maureen-orth","tag-mourning","tag-national-cathedral","tag-nbc","tag-russert","tag-st-albans-school","tag-tim-russert"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4gBq8-on","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1511","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1511"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1511\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2478,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1511\/revisions\/2478"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1511"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1511"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1511"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}