{"id":1382,"date":"2009-01-11T16:23:21","date_gmt":"2009-01-11T16:23:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2009\/01\/11\/this-week-i-took-dinner-over-to-a-couple-who-just-became-parents-of-an-infant-son-it-had-been-a-long-time-coming-and-it-was\/"},"modified":"2009-01-11T16:23:21","modified_gmt":"2009-01-11T16:23:21","slug":"this-week-i-took-dinner-over-to-a-couple-who-just-became-parents-of-an-infant-son-it-had-been-a-long-time-coming-and-it-was","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2009\/01\/11\/this-week-i-took-dinner-over-to-a-couple-who-just-became-parents-of-an-infant-son-it-had-been-a-long-time-coming-and-it-was\/","title":{"rendered":"Mommy Wisdom Across the InterWeb"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Cindy<\/a>
\nThis week I took dinner over to a couple who just became parents of an infant son.  It had been a long time coming and it was very moving to sit in their living room and sense the peace and – to be honest – blessedness of their parenthood.  I started out "doing something nice" by taking dinner and of course got far more out of it myself.  Being in that room is a memory I will cherish.<\/p>\n

I told them about all the parenting tips offered in virtual baby showers I'd been part of, and about all the other posts I'd done about my children and my life as a mother.  Then I kind of promised I'd send them the links.  I figured, though, that as long as I was pulling it all together I'd make a little package for anyone else looking for the kind of parenting advice that A) might be really good and B) you can ignore without hurting anyone's feelings.  So here they are — and as The Band wrote, "take what you need and leave the rest."<\/p>\n

First of all, since you have a son, here's a Julie's gift: a blog list filled with wisdom — a virtual baby shower of advice and warnings about raising boys<\/a>.   There's a list of "boy songs" too.  That's a bonus.  If you want to read my contribution, it's here<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And what about just plain good advice about being a mom?  That was the first shower<\/a>, and it's full of funny and often very moving posts.  Here's mine<\/a>.<\/p>\n

This one's kind of funny, and will look like it's a million years away – but it's fun: what to do when a second kid shows up<\/a> and makes everything crazy all over again.  I wrote for that one<\/a>, too.<\/p>\n

My favorite is the one whose subject was "memories of the first thirty days."  It was an emotional whopper; once I started I had trouble stopping.  Here's what I remember<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

Finally, as you enter this amazing new life, a preview of what it's like when your kids are grown and gone.  They're from December of 2006<\/a> and this past Thanksgiving<\/a>.  For some reason both struck a nerve with readers; it's an amazing adventure you've embarked upon – and it's glorious in all its phases.  I wish you half the joy I've known.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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