{"id":1307,"date":"2009-05-12T12:35:55","date_gmt":"2009-05-12T12:35:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2009\/05\/12\/farewell-to-eden-lipson-a-great-mother-editor-and-friend\/"},"modified":"2014-08-04T05:33:14","modified_gmt":"2014-08-04T05:33:14","slug":"farewell-to-eden-lipson-a-great-mother-editor-and-friend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2009\/05\/12\/farewell-to-eden-lipson-a-great-mother-editor-and-friend\/","title":{"rendered":"Farewell to Eden Lipson, A Great Mother, Editor and Friend"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a style=\"float: left;\" href=\"http:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/.a\/6a00d8341f053253ef01156f8bf22c970c-pi\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"at-xid-6a00d8341f053253ef01156f8bf22c970c \" style=\"margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;\" alt=\"Eden\" src=\"http:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/.a\/6a00d8341f053253ef01156f8bf22c970c-320wi\" \/><\/a> There were so many of us in 1968, joined to battle the Vietnam War by helping <a href=\"http:\/\/dontgelyet.typepad.com\/dontgeltoosoon\/2008\/01\/new-hampshire-p.html\" target=\"_blank\">Eugene McCarthy run for president<\/a>.\u00a0 We lost the Senator several years ago, and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/wp-dyn\/content\/article\/2006\/02\/20\/AR2006022001336.html\" target=\"_blank\">Eli Segal<\/a>, one of the best, soon after.\u00a0 Today I learned of the loss of another of the dear ones, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.balkinbuddies.com\/lipson\/index.html\" target=\"_blank\">Eden Ross Lipson<\/a>.\u00a0 She died this morning of pancreatic cancer.\u00a0 You can see from this photo that she was a woman who relished life and laughter.\u00a0 Her greatest joys: her husband and her kids.<\/p>\n<p>Although we shared a history from the campaign, we also shared some great lunches and adventures in Manhattan, where she had dozens of friends who loved and respected her.\u00a0 Principled and kind, she was a joy and support to so many.<\/p>\n<p><a style=\"float: left;\" href=\"http:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/.a\/6a00d8341f053253ef01156f8c024e970c-pi\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"at-xid-6a00d8341f053253ef01156f8c024e970c \" style=\"margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;\" alt=\"NYT kids books\" src=\"http:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/.a\/6a00d8341f053253ef01156f8c024e970c-120wi\" \/><\/a> In her work as <a href=\"http:\/\/www.balkinbuddies.com\/lipson\/index.html\" target=\"_blank\">Children&#8217;s Book Editor of the New York Times Book Review<\/a>, Eden produced what is still the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.randomhouse.com\/catalog\/display.pperl?isbn=9780812930184\" target=\"_blank\">classic work on children&#8217;s literature<\/a>.\u00a0 I knew her as she wrote the first edition; it was a real labor of love.\u00a0 Her understanding of kids, of books and of writing and purpose made her an ideal guide for anxious parents and savvy librarians alike.<\/p>\n<p>Her generosity went far beyond the love of children that made her such a great advocate for the joy they would find in their books.\u00a0 It was she who gave me my first review assignment and it led to an entire side career as a book reviewer that lasted for years.\u00a0 She was a tough and smart editor, too.<\/p>\n<p>I remember my review of one of my favorites: Jane Yolen&#8217;s<a href=\"http:\/\/www.janeyolen.com\/blurbs\/devilsa2.html\" target=\"_blank\"> The Devil&#8217;s Arithmetic<\/a>.\u00a0 A time-travel Holocaust story, it is a beautiful book.\u00a0 I submitted a very positive review.\u00a0 Soon after, Eden called.\u00a0 In a tone slipping between amused and professional, she reminded me that not all parents were as open as I was, and that I needed to add some kind of caution to parents who were more protective about at what age their kids were exposed to tough information.\u00a0 She was right, of course.\u00a0 I began an embarrassed apology.\u00a0 Her response:\u00a0 if people didn&#8217;t need editors she wouldn&#8217;t have a job!\u00a0 I <a href=\"http:\/\/query.nytimes.com\/gst\/fullpage.html?res=940DE4D61630F930A25752C1A96E948260&amp;n=Top%2fFeatures%2fBooks%2fBook%20Reviews\" target=\"_blank\">fixed the piece <\/a>and it ran.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Later, it was Eden who connected me with the editor who published my first book.\u00a0 She did it, as she did all things, with no expectation of reciprocal benefit.\u00a0 These sorts of things are typical of the warmth and kindness she showed to everyone who knew her.<\/p>\n<p>Life is strange.\u00a0 Eden was someone I knew, respected and cared about.\u00a0 I lost touch with her, as with so many others, when we moved to Los Angeles.\u00a0 My life then just didn&#8217;t allow for working to stay connected; there were hard things happening and they made it difficult to think outside the immediate circumstances of my life.\u00a0 And so I&#8217;m doubly sad as I struggle to write about a woman with such a mind, and a spirit, and a heart.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m comforted to know, though, that she had friends and family around her, supportive and caring, in her last days. That&#8217;s no surprise; it&#8217;s what she offered so many others.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There were so many of us in 1968, joined to battle the Vietnam War by helping Eugene McCarthy run for president.\u00a0 We lost the Senator several years ago, and Eli Segal, one of the best, soon after.\u00a0 Today I learned of the loss of another of the dear ones, Eden Ross Lipson.\u00a0 She died this &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/2009\/05\/12\/farewell-to-eden-lipson-a-great-mother-editor-and-friend\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Farewell to Eden Lipson, A Great Mother, Editor and Friend<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[2,3,5,6,2764,9],"tags":[3413,641,642,644,643,385],"class_list":["post-1307","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-2","category-aging","category-books","category-culture","category-i-seem-to-write-a-lot-of-obits","category-politics","tag-3413","tag-eden-lipson","tag-eden-ross-lipson","tag-mccarthy-campaign","tag-new-york-times-book-review","tag-vietnam-war"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4gBq8-l5","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1307","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1307"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1307\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2482,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1307\/revisions\/2482"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1307"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1307"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cynthiasamuels.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1307"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}